Ya'll remember that song?? LOL.. I'm such a 90s head. I LOVEEEEE 90s music!!!!!
Anyhow before I go off topic. I was sitting here think about a quote I saw- something to the effect of " I can tell a lot about a person based on what they choose to see in me". It got me thinking. I generally try my very best to see the good in people. When I do acknowledge greatness in someone, it grinds my gears when they cannot see it themselves.
The last guy I was with, clearly had issues. ( ya'll know this well by now) But as I've stated as well before, he has the potential to be a King. He has the potential to be a great leader, an amazing husband and best dad ever! It use to get my blood boiling that he could not see or understand that. The fact that he would act so stupidly and not use his full potential drove me insane.
Have you guys seen the movie 13 Going on 30? The little girl is in the body of the adult and the adult in the body of the young girl? That is what I think goes on with some folks (Some of you guys are young boys in the body of a man). But then there are people like me that see the real. I like to tell people "Don't tell me your dreams and goals if you are not ready to go hard for them".
I could be wrong, but I think that many females, especially those truly seeking God -like me in this sense, were created to be your helpmate. So when you say to us, I want to be President. We will support you and push you, even when you don't want us to. We will be there to realize the dream in your heart and mind. If you want to be a doctor, we will probably study with you and quiz you. We would be up before you with coffee and after you to help you get to bed (or the couch). We will remind you when your slipping off track. And I know ( from experience) that we can push a bit hard. But at the core of it, we want to help you make the imaginative, real.
Guys today refer to the female that smokes, drinks, has sex and doesn't care too much about what they do- a "Ride or Die". You could not be more wrong! Many, not all, but many of those females will absolutely ride for you, until you die or go to jail. Then its on to the next. The right woman for you will never want or be okay with you putting yourself in any kind of danger -be it drugs, alcoholism, guns, etc. If you are currently in a relationship with a woman that is always talking to you about the people you hang with or the activities you are involved in. I dare you to take a few minutes and think about what she is saying. Think about what could happen if you stay on the path you are in. Is she really nagging you? Or is she worried about you? Is it that she wants you to be great and not settle for the average around you?
Too many of you fellas, are not getting the picture. Your distracted. You guys want quick money, the attention, the temporary love. Some of you , in Gods infinite grace have been blessed with a woman who is doing her best to help you in life. Help you reach the dreams of a career and family. Dreams of comfort and peace. Dreams of wealth and blessings for generations. BUT YOU PUSH HER AWAY IN YOUR STUPIDITY!!! Don't think that God won't take back his gift. His love is over her too. He wont allow you to break her because you can't get the memo. So fellas, what can you tell about the woman in your life? What does she see in you? Can you tell she truly loves you?
Love Ya to Peace,
Faith.Loves
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