For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united with his wife, and they will become one flesh ( Genesis 2:24)
For the past week, I have been thinking and over-thinking about why I cannot emotionally, mentally, even spiritually get over my past. I know for an absolute fact- that the last was NOT God's choice for me. That was purely on my own accord. So why can't I move on even though God physically removed me from that situation.
I have also been reading the Word (a challenge I've almost completed) and there is one thing that popped out to me and helped me understand whats going on with me. Genesis 2:24. So it just clicked to me. I wasn't just a physical mess in my situation. But because we were active in sexual relations, in the spiritual realm -we were one.
Note: Having sex is not the only way to have a soul tie. Soul Ties can happen from emotional attachments, as well as accepting and acknowledging false Gods ( See story of Jezebel- 1&2 Kings esp. in Revelations) - although Jezebel was physically married to the King, her spirit was tied to a false god Baal from childhood by her parents.
So on top of all of the battles I had or he had, we now took on each others battles. Though he was not my husband- we were never married before God -in the spirit, the act that confirms the bond between man and woman is sex. ( Hence the reason why God said not to have sexual relations before marriage)
Ladies, let's be real. in regular terms. Have you ever heard a female say, she's not having sex with a guy because she wants to have a clear mind. Or have you heard after a female has had sex she gets a little "crazy" or "attached". That's the way it is suppose to be!! ( Attached not crazy..lol ) You have become one with a man. He is to protect you and provide and guide you. So Yes! your attached. and No! your not crazy for feeling that way. It is the way we were created!!
1 Corinthians 6:18 tells us to flee from sexual immorality because its not really a sin against anyone else but a sin against our own selves. If you really want to be deep about it, its a direct sin against God because the Word says that our body is God's temple. Sooooooooo. you get my point!
A soul tie, to me, is probably the most difficult challenge to deal with. Like my situation, although, I don't speak to, text, hang out, or really see my ex. He is on my mind, in my dreams and the emotions are still there. And I know it has nothing to do with wanting him back or feeling sad really. Its that I was once One with him. For 4 years, I was One with him. Now my spirit and flesh are like --- Um, hello?! we're missing a piece here. What happened to that guy that use to be here, remember him? ( thoughts), remember what you guys planned? ( dreams) omg, what if he found someone else? (emotions). A soul tie can drive you crazy!! LOL and in many instances it makes many people lost it and do /say outlandish things to people that they were once in love with. But God is such an awesome God. He gives us a way out of our soul ties. Jesus Christ!.
Once we acknowledge and repent, we can begin our life ( spiritual life) with Christ. All the things we did to get the attention of the wrong one, we should do for Christ. How you would look cute for the guy ( dress modestly), how you would be patient/caring for the guy ( have a gentle/ quiet spirit), how you would talk about him to any and everyone ( spread the Gospel) How you wanted to spend every second with that guy ( spend time in the Word, Bible Study, Prayer meetings, serving the needy) Christ is the one that can fill the void of not only your heart but your spirit too. He can break that soul tie and create a relationship that no one and nothing except you can break. You will have to walk away from him. Christ will never walk away from you. Heck, he was beaten and hung on a cross for you. He wants you, all of you, forever and ever! He fights for you.
What I have learned in spending time with God is that although I am battling an old soul tie. Christ wants me. So when those thoughts, dreams, and feelings creep up- I can call on the name of Jesus. I can read/quote a scripture. I can sing/listen to a worship song. I can literally cast the devil away with his negativity by talking to Jesus and praying to God.
I urge all those who are not married yet and are still virgins to please wait. Wait for your one. Spare yourself the heartache and added struggle of a soul tie to one that is not for you. If you are not married and have a soul tie, cling to Jesus. He is the only one that can cut that cord and break that chain. He is the one that can fill your heart and spirit.
Love ya to Peace,
Faith.Loves
For the past week, I have been thinking and over-thinking about why I cannot emotionally, mentally, even spiritually get over my past. I know for an absolute fact- that the last was NOT God's choice for me. That was purely on my own accord. So why can't I move on even though God physically removed me from that situation.
I have also been reading the Word (a challenge I've almost completed) and there is one thing that popped out to me and helped me understand whats going on with me. Genesis 2:24. So it just clicked to me. I wasn't just a physical mess in my situation. But because we were active in sexual relations, in the spiritual realm -we were one.
Note: Having sex is not the only way to have a soul tie. Soul Ties can happen from emotional attachments, as well as accepting and acknowledging false Gods ( See story of Jezebel- 1&2 Kings esp. in Revelations) - although Jezebel was physically married to the King, her spirit was tied to a false god Baal from childhood by her parents.
So on top of all of the battles I had or he had, we now took on each others battles. Though he was not my husband- we were never married before God -in the spirit, the act that confirms the bond between man and woman is sex. ( Hence the reason why God said not to have sexual relations before marriage)
Ladies, let's be real. in regular terms. Have you ever heard a female say, she's not having sex with a guy because she wants to have a clear mind. Or have you heard after a female has had sex she gets a little "crazy" or "attached". That's the way it is suppose to be!! ( Attached not crazy..lol ) You have become one with a man. He is to protect you and provide and guide you. So Yes! your attached. and No! your not crazy for feeling that way. It is the way we were created!!
1 Corinthians 6:18 tells us to flee from sexual immorality because its not really a sin against anyone else but a sin against our own selves. If you really want to be deep about it, its a direct sin against God because the Word says that our body is God's temple. Sooooooooo. you get my point!
A soul tie, to me, is probably the most difficult challenge to deal with. Like my situation, although, I don't speak to, text, hang out, or really see my ex. He is on my mind, in my dreams and the emotions are still there. And I know it has nothing to do with wanting him back or feeling sad really. Its that I was once One with him. For 4 years, I was One with him. Now my spirit and flesh are like --- Um, hello?! we're missing a piece here. What happened to that guy that use to be here, remember him? ( thoughts), remember what you guys planned? ( dreams) omg, what if he found someone else? (emotions). A soul tie can drive you crazy!! LOL and in many instances it makes many people lost it and do /say outlandish things to people that they were once in love with. But God is such an awesome God. He gives us a way out of our soul ties. Jesus Christ!.
Once we acknowledge and repent, we can begin our life ( spiritual life) with Christ. All the things we did to get the attention of the wrong one, we should do for Christ. How you would look cute for the guy ( dress modestly), how you would be patient/caring for the guy ( have a gentle/ quiet spirit), how you would talk about him to any and everyone ( spread the Gospel) How you wanted to spend every second with that guy ( spend time in the Word, Bible Study, Prayer meetings, serving the needy) Christ is the one that can fill the void of not only your heart but your spirit too. He can break that soul tie and create a relationship that no one and nothing except you can break. You will have to walk away from him. Christ will never walk away from you. Heck, he was beaten and hung on a cross for you. He wants you, all of you, forever and ever! He fights for you.
What I have learned in spending time with God is that although I am battling an old soul tie. Christ wants me. So when those thoughts, dreams, and feelings creep up- I can call on the name of Jesus. I can read/quote a scripture. I can sing/listen to a worship song. I can literally cast the devil away with his negativity by talking to Jesus and praying to God.
I urge all those who are not married yet and are still virgins to please wait. Wait for your one. Spare yourself the heartache and added struggle of a soul tie to one that is not for you. If you are not married and have a soul tie, cling to Jesus. He is the only one that can cut that cord and break that chain. He is the one that can fill your heart and spirit.
Love ya to Peace,
Faith.Loves
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